52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - I'D LIKE TO MEET

Who would I really like to meet? Well, lots of ancestors actually to find out if the family stories are true, or just to find out more about them.

I've run into a few brick walls along the way - unable to find parentage to go further back, or unable to find how people arrived in Australia or UK, so I'd love nothing better than to go back and question some of my ancestors.

I'd ask my three time great-grandfather on my mother's side, Thomas Trowbridge (abt 1798-1865), about his parents, or is he the Thomas Trowbridge born at the Foundling Hospital in London. Or talk to Michael Cahill (abt 1815-1886), my three time great-grandfather on my father's side, about the family story that he met his wife on the ship coming out here - or is he a convict as I suspect?

I'd like to talk to lots of them about their experiences sailing out here in the 1800s - no doubt, all with a very personal slant.  The convict, Alfred Dale (1827-1879), would have had a very different trip in 1845 compared to the Trowbridge family (John, Susan and seven children) who migrated to Australia in 1872, following in the footsteps of John's father and two sisters.

Did my Mum's maternal grandparents know each other in Monmouth, Wales when they were children? Who really was my paternal grandfather's father - are we Sawyers or did someone else get his Mum pregnant? And, how did Dilkoosha Loveland come by her unusual name?

In a way, I'd like to visit all of them from my parents backwards, just to sit and talk about their lives and what memories they have of the times that they lived in. How wonderful it would be to add some personal stories alongside the historical facts.

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - UNUSUAL NAME

The most unusual name in my family tree is that of Dilkoosha Eva Loveland. She was born on 18th June 1900 to Charles Henry Loveland and Ellen Maria Sawyer (my 2nd great aunt).

When I look up Dilkoosha on Google, I get images of Dilkusha Palace in Lucknow, India which was apparently built as a hunting lodge and used as a residence by the British in the 1850s. How my cousin (twice removed) came to be named after this building is a bit of a mystery.

Neither of Dilkoosha's parents had anything to do with India - both of them were born and grew up in South East England. My only conclusion is that there must have been something in the newspapers at the time and the name caught their imagination.

It's like a couple of family members born in Australia who have a middle name of Stanislaus - how did that happen?

Anyway if you want to have a look at Dilkusha Palace, here is a link to a photo in the British Library:
http://www.bl.uk/onlinegallery/onlineex/apac/photocoll/d/019pho000000988u00005000.html

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - CHALLENGE

I think the most challenging thing has been trying to find and then obtain certificates of birth, death and marriage. It is hard enough finding certificates in Australia - each State has its own rules and pricing structure, and it's not exactly cheap.

I haven't been game to try and obtain overseas certificates, it has been such a minefield trying to get information locally. I have a cousin (actually she is my Dad's cousin) who is really interested in the French side of the family and I think she has lots more information than she has told me! But she does tend to hoard her finds and sometimes it is hard to get copies from her.

Mostly, I am happy to make my findings freely available on Ancestry to fellow family researchers because I have been the beneficiary of their generosity in the past. If I think something should be kept private, I will not post it. My cousin is not on Ancestry but has everything filed away at home, and because of a dodgy internet connection cannot always send things electronically.

So, the challenge for me as a pure amateur, is to find proper source documents to back up the information in my tree. The tyranny of distance, the language differences and the cost involved all put roadblocks in my way.

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks - FIRST

So the first prompt is the word FIRST. We can interpret this any way we like, but I thought I would go back to the beginning.

My sister started things off with trying to find our paternal grandfather - Charles Sawyer. We were told that he had left the family some time in the 1930s. Dad didn't know all that much, except he saw him sometimes in town (i.e. the city centre of Melbourne) - apparently our grandfather worked in a cafe or milk bar. Our grandmother would not talk about him and was purported to hate the English because of him!

Not sure if the very FIRST thing we did was to get a copy of Dad's birth certificate or a copy of the marriage certificate between his parents. Needless to say all this was after our father had passed away and we could no longer ask him for more information. We only had the very little that he had told us in the past.

My sister reminded me that Dad had been called out of class at school to say goodbye to his father when he (Charles) went off to war. And Dad's sister tells about seeing a man in army uniform loitering near where they lived, and being calling her indoors by her grandmother. And one other story, is that Grandma (his ex) saw him in a newsreel that showed soldiers boarding a ship to go off the war.

My next step was to get his war record from the National Archives, for which I had to pay a hefty sum - but it is now digitised and freely available to anyone else who wants to research Charles Sawyer. Around about this time, my sister opened up an account on Ancestry.com, set up a fairly basic family tree, and we have gone on from there.

We have since been in contact with other members of the Sawyer family, including one who met Charles when he visited England in the 1950s. But we have more work to do and I suspect that we may never quite pin Charles down.

First Week of Life Book 2019

I am absolutely blown away by what is on offer in the first week of Life Book 2019. I haven’t set paintbrush to paper yet, but I’ve watched the warm-up painting videos, watched Sarah Trumpp’s art (but not the yoga yet), looked at both of Andy Mason’s offerings, and listened to Tamara LaPorte’s wonderful meditation.

The meditation just blew me away. I did not listen in optimal conditions – I had two noisy neighbours who kept intruding into the soundscape. But I persevered and even though I didn’t really see a symbol on my robe, once I opened the door, I got a big shock. There was my mother welcoming me and I walked into her arms and was enfolded in such warm light and love. It was amazing and totally out of the blue – so nice to sit in her arms for a while - she's been gone for so long.

I already had my word of the year “TROUNCE”. I picked it because it kept coming up in crosswords and puzzles in December. But the visit with Mum, gave me “OPEN HEART” and a symbol I can use. My animal is a “scaredy cat” – this came from an exercise I did as part of Alexa Cohen’s Awakening Through Art.

Then today, I looked at Andy’s videos – they too were a revelation. I loved the concept of the Parental messages and Child feelings that keep us hooked to behaviours or reactions. I will certainly be looking more closely at developing my Adult consciousness to counteract what I think are some 60-year-old hooks. Amazingly, I had recently come to the realisation that some of my problems might be related to a childhood illness and the associated ongoing problems while growing up and even now rearing their ugly head.

But… best of all were the links between my words when I looked at the feelings that they gave me. TROUNCE is about challenge, discovery, freedom, order, space, inspiration. It’s about beating obstacles, pouncing on life and letting the scaredy cat go – with my aim being clear-headedness. OPEN HEART is about acceptance, belonging, community, warmth, inspiration, discovery. It’s about letting things and people in – the aim is to be interested.

So, there are two clear double ups in my needs – inspiration and discovery – both of which I’m sure, will be more than adequately met by Life Book 2019. I am so looking forward to the journey.

Thanks Tamara, Andy and Sarah - I can't wait too see more.

And if you would like to join in, the link below will take you somewhere so you can have a look:

https://www.willowing.org/product/life-book-2019/

Creative Jump Start 2019 - Day 1

So here I am using my blog again to take part in one of Natalie Kalbach's workshops - it seems that I have not blogged since I finished the Artful Stroll in 2017!

This is my effort for Day1 - I did a three parter - the outside of my house, a couple of rooms inside, then the back garden. I did not plan it too well, so my pages aren't quite the right size, but I'm pleased that I got the concept right.

Now to get on with the next project.